I'm going to start by warning you that this post is a rant. A rant that I'm sure most Technology Workers have from time to time. A minimum of once a month I meet someone new outside of work and my family. After some chitchat about the weather or whatever we have in common that brought us to whatever event we are at to keep the conversation going they always ask "That" question, you know which one. "So what do you do for a living?". I hate this question.

There are two very good reasons why I hate this question. First, what I do for a living doesn't really tell you what type of person I am. If you'd truly like to learn who I am and what I'm about, ask me about my family or my hobbies. Ask me what I'm passionate about. These subjects are something I can speak volumes on with such enthusiasm we'd talk for hours. I'd be delighted to tell you what the Little Boy did yesterday. I'd love to tell about my Beautiful Wife, and how we meet, and how wonderful she is to me. Heck, I'll even be happy to talk with you about film verses digital photography and the merits of both.

My second reason, most people have no idea what I do. I'm not trying to be mean or condescending. It just from personal experience I know people who don't work in IT (Information Technology) have no idea what I do. They'll ask me what I do for a living and I say "I'm a Sr. Web Developer." And their eyes glaze over while their brain tries to connect any synapse to any other connection to the words "Web" and "Job". The most common reply is; 'my nephew just built a website, I should send you the link, you'll love it! It's got blinking banners and a cute little bunny picture, it's great!". Honestly this has happened at least a dozens of times. So in a futile attempt I try to clarify by telling them that what I write is Online Banking software. Again, the glazed over look, and then they tell me, "You know I have trouble logging in to my Online Banking, why do you think that is?" By this point I just simply shrug my shoulders and say, I have no idea and change the subject.